How to Date a Superhero (And Not Die Trying)

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Cristina Fernandez

Publisher

Harper Collins

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13+

Release Date

August 02, 2022

ISBN

978-0063114302

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A romantic coming-of-age story about growing up, falling in love, and surviving life—all set in the world of superheroes—from debut author Cristina Fernandez, proving that you don’t need a superpower to be the hero of your own origin story, perfect for fans of The Rest of Us Just Live Here and Renegades.

* Bank Street Best Children's Book of the Year 2023 * CCBC Choices Best of 2023 *

Falling for a superhero is dangerous. You have to trust that they’ll catch you.

Astrid isn’t a superhero, not like the ones she sees on the news, but she has something she thinks of as a small superpower: She has a perfect sense of time. And she’s not going to waste a single second.

Her plan for college is clear—friends, classes, and extra-curriculars all carefully selected to get her into medical school.

Until Max Martin, a nerdy boy from high school, crashes back into her life. Things with Max were never simple, and he doesn’t keep to her schedule. He disappears in the middle of dates and cancels last-minute with stupid excuses.

When a supervillain breaks into her bedroom one night, Astrid has to face the facts: Her boyfriend, Max Martin, is a superhero. Double-majoring as a pre-med was hard, but now Astrid will have to balance a double-life. This wasn’t part of her plan.

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June 28, 2026 (Updated: July 18, 2026)

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How To Date a Superhero (AND Not Die Trying) has a fun premise, as the title suggests it will. Imagine a world like Disney’s Incredibles, where superheroes and aliens are hiding in the population, and incidents of epic proportions happen on the regular. Then imagine trying to be a regular human, trying to make it through premed, and how your study schedule gets interrupted for all these incidents. This is the world Astrid Rose finds herself in, and the small bit of happiness she allows in her jam-packed schedule is for her boyfriend, Max Martin, who she finds out is a superhero named Kid Comet.
I relate to Astrid so much as I was in college. She has organized her schedule to within an inch of her life with her identity and self-worth wrapped up in how good her grades are. She even goes so far as to schedule panic attacks and cry sessions for how overwhelmed she is. It is revealed that a past traumatic incident has led to this coping mechanism for her to feel control in her life in an out-of-control world.
Once she learns the truth, she must now participate in the Program designed to give her survival skills for the inevitable times the supervillains target her as the girlfriend. This extra bit of chaos forces Astrid to her breaking point, where a tight schedule can no longer support her lack of work/life balance.
Cristina Fernandez does such a nice job fleshing out this scenario of a world of superheroes from the perspective of normal people. Astrid’s character is a bit robotic with all her talk of schedules, but it also helps show how much disassociation Astrid is dealing with, trying to avoid her anxiety and survive. Astrid feels too much and doesn’t know how to deal with any of it, so she represses what she can until it breaks her. Then she finally must deal with it and that speaks to the truth that many of us experience.
Overall, this book showcases a fun perspective for fans of superhero stories. It also has a believable representation of mental health, anxiety, and neurodivergent thinking that will hold appeal to many.