The Blue Dress

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Age Range
8+
Release Date
March 24, 2026
ISBN
978-0374393601
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For fans of Jasmine Warga and Starfish, an Iranian American girl navigates complicated relationships with her mother, her best friend, and her body image in this unflinching and ultimately uplifting middle-grade debut.

Sometimes Yasmin feels like her body isn’t hers. And it’s not just because puberty has mounted a full-on alien invasion, or that emigrating from Iran a year-and-a-half ago has meant one change after another. It’s also because her mother constantly pushes her to lose weight, like sewing Yasmin a beautiful blue dress for Persian New Year that is too tight on purpose.

At school, it doesn’t help that Yasmin’s best friend, Carmen, is petite and close to her own mother, or that popular-girl Zoe always has a mean comment to spare. Yasmin is sure her crush, Jack, won’t ever like her the way she is, either.

With the pressure to fit in closing in on all sides, Yasmin starts taking desperate measures. But if being thin is supposed to make her happier, then why does losing weight feel like losing parts of herself, too?

From debut author Rebecca Morrison comes The Blue Dress, a heart-rending, funny, and hopeful book inspired by her own life, relatable to anyone who has ever needed to break away from someone else’s vision of how they should look in order to embrace their true self.

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A Heart Breaking Look at Body Image Problems
(Updated: June 04, 2026)
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4.0
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4.0
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Yasmin Safavi is twelve years old, and her family has moved from Iran to Ashbury Falls, Virginia. It was a difficult transition, but her father loves his engineering job with Boeing, and Yasmin has worked hard to rid herself of her Persian accent. Her mother misses her sisters, but dedicates her time to Yasmin and her younger brother Ali. As Nowruz (Persian New Year) approaches, Yasmin's mother makes her a beautiful dress to wear, but purposefully makes it too tight so that Yasmin will lose weight. She doesn't, and is very frustrated. Her mother frequently makes comments about her weight, and pressures her to eat lunches that include just carrots and a dry turkey sandwich on whole wheat. Yasmin's best friend, Carmen, has a different family dynamic, with a warm and supportive mother who offers Yasmin hugs as well as delicious meals. School is also stressful, since popular girl Zoe and her minions Olivia and Hannah constantly berate Yasmin for her curly hair and bushy eyebrows. Yasmin has a crush on the popular Jack, who seems to return her attention, perhaps because he is also the target of some of Zoe's comments, especially about his love of Dungeons and Dragons. Yasmin's mother is so overbearing that she often buys packs of Oreos at the neighborhood CVS and eats them in secret; after one such snack food binge, she makes herself throw up. She also starts skipping dinner, with her mother's approval, although her father frequently voices concerns. Seeing Zoe crying in the bathroom, Yasmin offers support, and finds out that Zoe's busy parents are always fighting. The two bond, and Yasmin realizes Zoe isn't all bad, but her relationship causes problems with Carmen. It doesn't help that Yasmin is straightening her hair, plucking her eyebrows, attempting to wear makeup, and spending ridiculous amounts of money on a Lululemon jacket. On a class trip to a museum, classmate Peyton is verbally abusive, calling Yasmin a terrorist and saying that Iranians "hate Americans". No one stands up for her. When Yasmin makes herself throw up at Carmen's house after the two reconcile, Carmen tells a teacher at school, who makes Yasmin talk to a school counselor. The counselor in turn alerts her parents, has them meet, and recommends a therapist who specializes in eating disorders. Yasmin's mother balks, because she has been pleased with Yasmin's weight loss and claims that the family can handle the issue themselves, but the father overrides her and Yasmin gets help. Unspoken details about the mother's family dynamics with her brother are revealed, and the family works to help Yasmin. At an end of year party, Jack asks Yasmin if they can play chess over the summer, and says he is glad to see her return to wearing her hair curly.
Good Points
It's been a while since I've seen a middle grade book about eating disorders; Willis's 2023 graphic novel Smaller Sister might be the most recent. This is a topic of constant concern, and one where updated information is critical. The fact that this book was able to intertwine eating disorders with cultural identity, friend drama, and even a little light romance makes it one that will appeal to many readers. Because eating disorders are usually connected to problems with family dynamics, they are especially difficult, and the mother's backstory and the father's support of Yasmin are well portrayed. The best part of the book was Carmen telling her trusted art teacher about Yasmin's problems, and the swift response from the school support system. While it might not always happen this way in real life, I do like to see best practices used in fiction!

It would have been helpful to have a list of resources for getting help with eating disorders at the back of the book; perhaps the finished version will include these. Including websites with good information can be extremely valuable, since students with eating disorders do gravitate to book on this topic. Some young readers may be a bit confused about Yasmin's wearing of dresses (and from Talbot's?) since all they seem to wear are pajama pants and hoodies, but this is most likely a function of the differences between Iranian and US cultural expectations.

It's essential to have updated middle grade eating disorder books, as treatments and societal norms change. While Levenkron's 1979 The Best Little Girl in the World was the definitive work on this topic for many years, it is no longer representative of diagnoses or treatments. Lytton's 2009 Jane in Bloom and Anderson's Wintergirls from the same year are other titles that were helpful for a while. The Blue Dress is a better choice for today's young readers, along with Toalsen's The Unforgettable Leta "Lightning" Laurel (2025), Dee's Everything I Know About You (2018), Petro-Roy's Good Enough (2019), and Gerber's Taking Up Space (2021).
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